The question ... "What do you want?!" ... might save you ... experiencing ugly experiences ... … by the well know romanian author Adrian Dumitru
The question ... "What do you want?!" ... might save you ... experiencing ugly experiences ... … by the well know romanian author Adrian Dumitru
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So ... i ask myself ... what if instead of arguing or illusory fighting with anyone from the stage of my life .... I would simply ask ... "What do you want?!".
Be ... opened.
... calm.
And ... maybe even smile.
Connect to that person.
Unfortunately ... i am not doing it.
I never did it.
Most probably ... I'll never do it.
I know today the importance of asking .... "What do you want?!" .... and realise, but also accept the expectations of the others at me.
But ... i am not moving ... a finger.
It's a simple question.
Just ... a question.
That could have saved me from lots of ugly experiences ... not being forced anymore to deal with the unconscious reactions of people from the stage of my life.
And ... still ...
You see ... somehow i understand that asking .... "What do you want?!" ... can connect me to that person.
But ... you know why?!
Well ... even if i know this great trick ... why do i still don't practice it?!
I don't care ... of what others want.
i am too selfish to care of that.
So ... i just pay the price of this ... stupidity.
Instead of listening to them .... understand what is their perceptions about the connection we have ... I prefer to argue.
To fight.
To become ... even their enemy.
Only because ... i am too selfish.
To egocentric.
... caring only and only ... about me.
Anyone else ... being irrelevant on the stage of life.
So .... life continues ... stupidly.
... connecting me to all sorts of ugly energies.
Well ... until the day ... when i'll be wise enough to ask ... "What do you want ... as this connection to be a nice one?".
But ... everyone knows ... i am not wise.
I never was ... and i will never be.
Cause .... I am an idiot.
The handicap of being selfish ... makes me ... a big idiot.
Of course .... like many, many others.
So ... maybe i have to admit it.
Say it load ... "I am an idiot and that is why my life is ... the way it is."
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